Wednesday, July 25

Sex Education

Salam and Hi all.

Thank you so much to all who prayed for me to recover from my fever and yes I am.
I hope you are doing well and in a good health.

So I did post a poll on my instagram story about sex education, either they agree or disagree so here the result Ive got.

Personally Im a pro-sex ed, I do agree with this because if we look at the reason why sex ed needs to be taught in school is because we have so many sex related issues among teenagers like pre-marital pregnancy, abortion etc. It becomes more serious day by day.

Ive read a research paper by Laile Suzana Jaafar (2005), the research reveals that 44% teenagers learn about sex from their friends, and rest of them thru watching and reading pornographic materials.

Have you ever being asked by kids like how people makes baby? whey they coming from? kinda thing, you know. I dont know about you, but when I was a kid around 6-7 years old something. I was curious about how a woman can actually get pregnant and the baby comes out from the stomach but  I was too scared to ask anyone.
And I dont remember what really makes me think that a girl can simply get pregnant by touching a boy, like even by touching a boy's hand could make a girl pregnant. I was so scared if I might be touched by a boy, like even a bit because I don't want to get pregnant at that very young age.
Then when I get older, I think maybe by touching its fine, but not kissing. I was thinking that people makes baby just by kissing. I know its crazy and stupid but this is real. I was thinking this way till I reached 13 years old till my friends told me that's not true - that's not how people makes baby.
I knew the truth at 13 years old. Its insane. But whyyyy? because the lack of knowledge about reproductive system kinda thing. Nobody tells me.

What topics cover in sex education?
Sex ed is about human development including puberty, sexual orientation and even gender identity. Besides, relationships (inc friendship, families), personal skills, sexual behavior, sexual health etc.

I dont know why some of us disagree with sex education to be taught at school. I know they have their own reasons, maybe to some people by implementing sex ed in school will make the teenagers become more sexually active. I don't know and if you are one of them - maybe you can point out your reasons on the comment sections.

Yeah no doubt that everything has pros and cons.

Last but not least, I think if we don't implement sex ed in school, parents really really need to play their role in providing sex ed.

Congrats if you can play that critical role, it means that you are a great parent. Keep it up!

But do you really think all parents can do that?

Well we still hear sexual abuse victims are among teenagers and kids tho.

No offence. I do respect your opinion so respect mine.

Till then.

Saturday, July 21

Stand up for yourself.

Salam all and Hi.

I hope you are in a good health.
I've got fever, it has been two days tho. But nahhh I am okay.

I scrolled my socmed and found a post says "We have to love ourselves, think that we are pretty enough, who else is going to feel we are pretty enough if we don't?"

And I was like yes you go girl.
She's right. Self love is very very important.

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No matter what people talk about you, about your appearances, just let them be,
We don't need others to validate us, to tell us that we are amazing, beautiful and whatnot.
We are beautiful in our own way, we are all unique.
We don't need attention or compliments from others to make us valuable.

Yes I know, sometimes it's hard, sometimes it's easy to feel that we are enough.
Whenever people tell me that I am not as pretty, as amazing as people out there, I always felt a bit down but then I will tell myself that I am enough, just they don't see it.

To be valuable, we don't have to be attractive, powerful, or anything you knowww, we just have to be ourselves!
Don't let anybody treat us like we aren't worthy.
Because we all deserve to be respected, to be treated fairly.
We have to stand up for ourselves!

And I don't know why some of us are being toxic to someone else appearances, body etc.
If you are reading this, ask yourself why you want to hurt others? Please don't be that person again, grow up, be a better you. Stop saying bad about others' appearances. No matter how ugly or pretty they are, we are human after all.

Good luck to anyone who is trying to love yourself, who has been told that you are ugly and not enough.
No matter how far you are in your recovery, I hope you will feel better soon.

Stay strong lovelies.

Let yourself be proud of yourself.

Wednesday, July 18

Even if I don't succeed.

Salam and Hi all.

I've always wanted to try new things to create experiences with as few regrets as possible.
But when the opportunity comes, I will think that is something wayyyyy out of my comfort zone. I don't really have that confidence.

It's either I will push myself to do it, or I will let the opportunity goes to someone else.

There was a time I joined an audition for College Suara Emas, I picked Irama Melayu as my genre. I passed the audition and Id been chosen to go to final. And I had no confidence, I think I will not win the competition, I think that others are way better than me.

I asked my friends "Should I go to final?", they say yes I need to at least give it a try, they say that Ive got the voice, I've the opportunity to win. But then, even after Ive got all the advice, they encouraged me to go to final, but still because I was so scared to lose. I drop-off from the final with no regrets at first.

A month after the competition, I accidentally met one of the music trainers there something yknowww. Then he asked me, why I wasn't there at the final - he thought I will win the competition, he seemed a lil bit disappointed with me, I said sorry. And I realized I should give it a try! Even if I don't succeed, but I will learn something.

Nahhh its too late to regret.

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There was a time when I was being offered to emcee an event, like informal emcee and the event must be hosted in English. I really really want to do it, I was scared if I don't succeed. But lesson learnt, I don't want to do the same mistake again. So yes, I do it. I went out of my comfort zone. I did it.

The director of the event talked to me at the end of the show and said I was good. I was like OMG really? It meant so much to hear those words. I felt grateful.

I think I did better that I thought I would do.

I finally started feeling somewhat comfortable in being on stage. Yaaa I made few mistakes along the way but I felt more confident in my abilities and got better at emcee, to speak in public. Its hard to tell, the feelings is weird but beautiful. Yknowww what I mean?

And yes I grew up from that experience.

What I've learnt is if you're feeling afraid to step out of your comfort zone. You just need to go for it! Trust me, you will not regret anything if you remember this, even if you dont succeed, you will learn something. Trust me, the feeling of self-satisfaction afterwards is freaking worth it. I felt it. And I want you to feel the same.

Saturday, July 14

Surat Kecil Untuk Tuhan

Salam and Hi all!

I thought that you would be the hero come in save the day, but you're the villain.

I just watched this movie Surat Kecil Untuk Tuhan.
I dont know about you but I cried like crazyyyyyyyyyyyyy! (Anyways I memang cepat koyak kind of person)

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This movie is about Angel and his brother Anton, their parents are dead so they stay at their aunt's. One day, they run from their aunt's maybe sebab tak tahan kena pukul and so on. So bermula lah perjalanan dua beradik ni. They have no where to go till they meet this one uncle named Rudy, at first his brother Anton refused to follow Uncle Rudy but then because he feels sorry for his sister, Angel, she is hungry and cold so they follow Uncle Rudy. They thought Uncle Rudy will help them to get a better life but they actually they are stucked into a syndicate. Okay I should stop here and you need to go watch this movie. 

Justtttt be prepared for so many sad scenes. I started to cry at the minute 20. 
Its so sad to think that some children dont have chance to enjoy their childhood. Terpaksa bekerja, minta sedekah etc. They are still kids tho. 

Have you ever been in a situation whenever you see kids ask for sedekah but you dont know either you want to give them money or not. We are so in dilemma, if we give them  money - it will be given to the person who runs the syndicate. But if we dont, what will happen to them if they dont bring back enough money. I dont know mannnn, but I think the best way is we give them food instead of money. So that the scumbag who runs the syndicate will be noted that running this business not bring them any profits anymore. Maybe they will stop. Perhaps? But still its scary, in this movie, it shows that these kids will end up died, and their organs will be sold. 

If the same thing is happening here in Malaysia. Please government! Do something to help them. Maybe they want to ask for helps but dont know how to.

This movie also made me realize that someone who loves us, will not leave us. Once there, forever they will be there.

Sorry Im a bit emotional. Its justtttt so sad TT__TT

I would give 8 out of 10 for this movie.

Thursday, July 12

After awhile.

Salam and Hi!

This is my first post after a very longggggggg time.
I was busy with my studies, not that busy but you know I don't have much time to blog and I was so lazy to post anything yknowwww what I mean.
The thing that I still got comments on this blog is insane. Like every time I logged into this blog and see some people leave comments, I just want to say THANK YOU SO MUCH!

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I miss my first year as a blogger, it was dope! I was so addicted in blogging, I was crazy doing blogwalking. The feelings is like you want to post everyday, blog everything. I loved the whole blogging thing, I loved the community we had.

When I first started blogging, I did not think likeeee anybody would be interested in my posting, leave some comments and follow this blog. I did not expect that. I was so happy and grateful when I reached my first thousand followers. Y'all are amazing.

I still love and always wanted to blog even I chose to be on hiatus for a long time, I still have passion in blogging.

Now I want to make everything back on track, I want to post things here - rant, random thoughts, life things and whatnot. I really really want to run this blog again. So excited, I really am.

Lets do it!

P.s. If you have any question. You can just drop your comment down below or drop a message on Sarahah

Till then.