Thursday, August 9

Rant: Teacher shares their students' karenah.

Salam and Hi all.

So yesterday I found someone shared this post on Facebook.

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The post that I found is the original status posted by the teacher, so I basically saw these both kids faces and I know the teacher's Facebook. And this one I share here is re-posted by another Facebook disagree with what the teacher has done.

And yes. me too!

At first when I found the post, I was like "Seriously this teacher?" how could he and some people think this is funny? To be honest, to me, this isn't funny at all!
But then I was like, whatever maybe it just me who think that isn't okay and if I say something, people will be like "Why so serious?" So I think maybe its better for me to left my thoughts unsaid and let it go.

Till I found another post about this issue saying that this kid named Aniq, he cry because people started to tease and body shame him. From one person, and now the whole Malaysia would know and tease him. And its not funny at all! Its now cyber bullying. Thank you teacher!

I don't want to go further about the teacher ethics thingy, because you know. As a teacher, he cannot do this, posted something like this on socmed. Yes yes I know not all teachers out there like to share and make things viral, but please to those who like to post things on socmed about students etc. Teacher, please be more sensitive and aware! Kids got feelings too! Think before you do, all the consequences that would affect the kids. I could go further talking about this teacher stuff but maybe not in this entry.

I know we are leaving in Malaysia which make fun of people's physical appearances seem fine, even on television, there are lots of 'jokes' made by referring someone's physical appearance. You know what? Actually, this is not healthy and need to be stopped!

Sorry but no sorry to 'pelawak' out there, that kind of jokes is the cheap one. And to some people, its not funny.

Okay back to the story! If we look on the kids side? After what happened, netizens are now laughing on them. This might lead to low self confidence, feel embarrassed on their own bodies, and even depression. We never know. Hello, they are kids. They can't handle this.

Maybe some of you might say, this is normal they are kids tho. Who says this is okay? Whatever if you think this is okay, normal yada yada. You moron. But that teacher got the bloody brain to think wise enough that is wrong and not supposed to be shared on socmed. Hello!

I have no experience in body shaming but I feel like I can feel what those kids feel. Im sorry Im triggered and sad at the same time. I feel so sorry to those kids. The teacher should know how to deal with this in a better way.

There are so many ways to show how enjoy you are in being a teacher but not by sharing this kind of story and make it goes viral. Be more sensitive on what you going to post on socmed if it would affect other people.
Till then.

Thursday, August 2

Final Project

Salam and Hi all.

To those who dont know, Im currently finishing my final project and Im writing a paper so called a thesis whatever, and also three documents which are Software Requirement Specification (SRS), Software Design Document (SDD) and Software Testing Document (STD) and of course the project development, all the code and stuff.

It'll be a system to rank and select Final Year Project of Software Engineering Student in UPSI.
And it is related to Multi Criteria Decision Analysis (MCDA) or Multi Criteria Decision Making (MCDM)

Maybe to some people, this is so hard. I've no doubt but Im taking this as a challenge and I keep telling myself that I can do this.

I think one of the biggest challenges is I really need to keep motivated. Life has become so so so hectic! you know, senior year. And of course I procrastinate a lot! Like a lot, I swear!

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I wish you all the best!

If you have any questions, feel free to ask me.

Till then,

Wednesday, July 25

Sex Education

Salam and Hi all.

Thank you so much to all who prayed for me to recover from my fever and yes I am.
I hope you are doing well and in a good health.

So I did post a poll on my instagram story about sex education, either they agree or disagree so here the result Ive got.

Personally Im a pro-sex ed, I do agree with this because if we look at the reason why sex ed needs to be taught in school is because we have so many sex related issues among teenagers like pre-marital pregnancy, abortion etc. It becomes more serious day by day.

Ive read a research paper by Laile Suzana Jaafar (2005), the research reveals that 44% teenagers learn about sex from their friends, and rest of them thru watching and reading pornographic materials.

Have you ever being asked by kids like how people makes baby? whey they coming from? kinda thing, you know. I dont know about you, but when I was a kid around 6-7 years old something. I was curious about how a woman can actually get pregnant and the baby comes out from the stomach but  I was too scared to ask anyone.
And I dont remember what really makes me think that a girl can simply get pregnant by touching a boy, like even by touching a boy's hand could make a girl pregnant. I was so scared if I might be touched by a boy, like even a bit because I don't want to get pregnant at that very young age.
Then when I get older, I think maybe by touching its fine, but not kissing. I was thinking that people makes baby just by kissing. I know its crazy and stupid but this is real. I was thinking this way till I reached 13 years old till my friends told me that's not true - that's not how people makes baby.
I knew the truth at 13 years old. Its insane. But whyyyy? because the lack of knowledge about reproductive system kinda thing. Nobody tells me.

What topics cover in sex education?
Sex ed is about human development including puberty, sexual orientation and even gender identity. Besides, relationships (inc friendship, families), personal skills, sexual behavior, sexual health etc.

I dont know why some of us disagree with sex education to be taught at school. I know they have their own reasons, maybe to some people by implementing sex ed in school will make the teenagers become more sexually active. I don't know and if you are one of them - maybe you can point out your reasons on the comment sections.

Yeah no doubt that everything has pros and cons.

Last but not least, I think if we don't implement sex ed in school, parents really really need to play their role in providing sex ed.

Congrats if you can play that critical role, it means that you are a great parent. Keep it up!

But do you really think all parents can do that?

Well we still hear sexual abuse victims are among teenagers and kids tho.

No offence. I do respect your opinion so respect mine.

Till then.